Monday, March 3, 2014

3/3/14: Stubborn People and Miracles

Sturgeon Bay is gonna be the coolest place ever in the summertime. I can't wait to talk to a million people on the streets and refer them to the missionaries wherever they actually live. but in the wintertime, it's super dead. tourism=no go. but the stars at night outside of town are AMAZING! :D
hey hey! hows it going? Missionary work is you know...missionary work :) goods and bads.
issue: people who have their own crazy theories about God and say that they're just theories and that they don't really know for sure, yet they won't let them go when we do everything in our power to show them via scripture that they're wrong!
a nonmember is convinced that God is an It and is literally the universe itself, and he believes in the bible yet says that it was corrupted by old white men, and believes jesus was just a prophet. so when we ask what he meant when he said "No man cometh unto the Father but by me" he says "I'm not convinced that jesus actually said that." See the problem here?
meanwhile, a member (whose more of a southern baptist, I think) insists that because we have no records of jesus from birth until 30, he wasn't actually the perfect person and only became sinless after his baptism, but was just like the rest of us before that. issues. How do you work with these people?
we set a date with Crystal and Sam! And I think they can make it. We just need to help them see the importance of church and get them a consistent ride since they don't have a car of their own. But Sam was like "My life is changed forever AHH SO MUCH SENSE mindblown" when we showed him the Plan of Salvation. It was great.
other issue: people who take lessons from us and the JWs, and have been doing so for years or at least months. How to get people to see that just getting spiritual things into their home is NOT the same as working out their salvation? *awkward moment when the JWs show up at their house in the middle of our appointment*
Elizabeth dropped off the face of the earth more so than I've ever seen anyone drop off the face of the earth. It's not like her at all to disappear without saying something and she always comes to church, and now she doesn't answer her door and her phone is disconnected. She saw 17 Miracles at game night on friday and it was really good for her, so she might be having a King Lamoni experience at her house and she'll be awake again in three days and convert the entire city. and state. That's what I've got my fingers crossed for.
We did some outdoor service transporting paint cans for like 2 hours on Friday, and I felt like I was back in West Allis. Being outside in the negative weather for extended periods of time...don't miss that at all. But the service was good :) And it kinda felt nice to remember.
Yesterday at 8:00 pm we got our car stuck on top of a snowbank (long story) and were digging it out for about 45 minutes before some good samaritans came along and by a miracle and some more digging, we were able to push it out. I was sure we were gonna have to tow it at first. Besides good samaritans, the miracle of the night was that it was -7 degrees plus windchill and I never once got cold. I wasn't even wearing gloves, and the only time my hands felt cold was when I was actually holding ice in them. Other than that I felt perfectly fine. It was a nice night. And the workout felt really good, heh heh :)
Lots of thoughts going through my mind this week. Reconsecration, 2nd Coming, Pharisees, charity, pride, and the work of the spirit were the main topics.
I've decided I'm going to write a book about different types of pride when I get home. It'll be like a 40 year project, but best project ever!! Also the gifts of the spirit would be another good book topic. dad--maybe you can find me good doctrine books if they exist on these topics? for the fun of reading when I get home. Cause I'm pretty sure someone else can write them way better than I can! then I wouldn't have to, heh heh :D
Transfers will be next week! I have ideas of what's going to happen, and what I want to happen, and they don't coincide, so I am gonna have to work that out and figure out what the Lord wants to happen. Hopefully before it comes :) Always an adventure as a missionary.
Love you all!
Sister Neal

2/24/13: We Got Custard

I've been sick all week.
That's all folks!
Sister Neal

Okay not really. But sick doesn't really help things.
I met Vickie!! Reminds me of a recent convert in West Allis, so even though she says she's not up for converting (everyone here says that) I know different. She's totally converting.
We have some awesome investigators here. They are all nice and schtufts, but they kinda need to progress. They even do all the stuff like church and reading that's hard for a lot of people, but they aren't progressing spiritually. We're working on it. I blame it on the apathy the world encourages these days. So many people just don't have the desire to seek. It's totally lame.
Nick came to church again this week, and this time he allowed us to set up a time to meet. Score!! Credit goes to overzealous branch members, but suffice to say that if they hadn't gotten on it, we would have. So either way :)
Overall, I guess this week's been kinda boring. Lots of cool people and lessons, but not really any cool stories to go along with them. Sorry. More updates next week, I guess :)
Sister Neal

2/17/14: Week of New Stuffs!

I don't know if missionaries are allowed to do this, but I told one of our investigators that she needs to dump her numbskull boyfriend. By the time we left she was grinning from ear to ear :D
[I've actually done that a lot...some things never change]
I've been meeting the investigators here in Sturg! There are so many it's probably going to take another couple of week before I meet them all...haha. I've been blown away by how down-to-earth, prepared these people are. Real, normal families in many cases! A bunch of weird ones as always, but even a lot of those seem to be well prepared. Wisconsin is the home of everyone who is on welfare or disability, and it's really hard to find kingdom-building individuals. Or families. But there is such great potential here!!
Sam, Crystal, and Brandy are awesome. And Andy and Jill. And Melissa, and Hilario and Arendida. Sometimes I really wish I'd payed more attention to Spanish my whole life.
The LARCs are also awesome. everyone is just awesome! The investigators come to church, the recent converts stay active and go to the temple, the less actives are excited to learn again. Life is just good here.
Miracle: Nick came to church. No one knew who he was. Just a dude. Apparently he met the sisters here before us while playing hacky sack. They gave him a BoM and he said he's been reading it and the Bible lately and just has been absorbed. and the BoM rings truer than the Bible to him.
We found a teaching record for him in our area book. He had been taught the restoration then texted the sisters and said "I'm not interested at this time." But now he's totes back!! I am excited to see what happens, even though he refused to give us an address or phone number. Hopefully he'll be back next Sunday.
We only had like 3 investigators at church, but there were another three or four that were in the hospital/on vacation. They should be able to make it next week. I'm astounded that everyone here just comes to church on their own! That never happens.

We had Zone Conference this week! I love meetings. I don't know why. But I love them. I particularly loved getting to see all the missionaries in GB again! I got like a hundred and one "Sister Neal! Welcome back!" comments. It's soooo good to see peeps I love :)
We celebrated Valentine's Day with a LA, Christina, and she bought us slippers and chocolate and we ate pizza and watched Legacy. It was so much fun. She's the best girl ever! Seriously. Everyone here is just so cool.
I got to go back to GB for Kim and Maddie's baptism!! I can't believe they're baptized--it happened so fast. But it was great to see all my favorite people from GB2 again!! Then we went with the Bakers (senior couple) to see Arendida and Hilario and they have SO much promise!! I just keep getting blown away.
Sturgeon Bay has sweet snow and ice sculptures. we went finding while we looked at them :)

2/11/14: SBFTW

Hey all :)
Breakdown of last week:
Monday became my own personal "prison-temple experience". It was awesome, but in some aspects it was the worst day ever. Suffice to say that by the end of the night President was promising us that he'd only leave us together for a few more days. (It was supposed to be only til Thursday, but ended up taking until Monday) I finished knitting my leg warmers. They are warm :)

I've never felt the Spirit so strongly as I felt it on Tuesday. DTM was awesome. I realized that we have the most dysfunctional district ever. The elders and sisters in this room have so many problems. But as we each got up and shared our thoughts about the power of prayer, I knew that this is the most faith-filled district ever. In spite of depressed or deathbed-sick elders and transfer madness and comp unity issues, these are missionaries with FAITH. Faith to move mountains. What more can you ask for?
Have I mentioned that our Janesville English elders are both chefs? They made us some delicious food. Best thing ever.
Wed-Sat we studied and went to our scheduled appointments. Things did get a little better and we talked more than we had last week, but they didn't improve as much as I would have liked. I learned some pretty awesome stuff about the rejection of prophets throughout history, and how it relates to our day. Also about prayer and the people of Alma. Lots of good stuff.

We had the extremely tender mercies of eating dinner at the houses of people we loved, which got us through the week. Our amazing Sister Tucker asked us to come over on Saturday when she found out that we just passed our year mark--she bought us an awesome chocolate cake, we played Life, and watched Mr. Kreuger's Christmas. It was fantastic. Best night ever.
So yesterday (Monday) we transferred at the mission home, and then me and Sister Allen went to Kopps because it's been almost a year for me and that place is amazing. It was even better than I remembered. Then we took the shortest 3-hour drive ever to Sturgeon Bay, and I unpacked.
Sturgeon Bay is like nowhere I've ever served. It's gonna be super different. I'm super excited!! Our branch has like 40 active members. There are no missionaries anywhere near us beside Elder and Sister Baker, our senior couple who are totally awesome. No elders anywhere. We have tons of work to do here, and it's super prepared! Sturgeon Bay hadn't had a baptism in like 3 years, and they've had 6 or 8 in the past three months. We have tons of people to teach. Missionary life is gonna be fantastic :)
Did I mention I get to be back in my old GB2 district? yes, it's pretty awesome :)

How are your lives? :)
Sister Neal

2/3/14: Times of Trouble

That's now! You know you're brain is turning ridiculous when you look forward to all your trials and can laugh at them as soon as you're away from them. Sometimes I laugh to myself when I'm in them. Is that levity? Bah.
It's probably just the stir-crazy.
So the early part of this week was pretty decent. We had swedish pancakes and homemade donuts at the Thompsons. We had a few good lessons, although pretty much all of our lessons consist of "lets read the BoM with them!" because my comp doesn't like to talk about things and really plan our lessons. Our service for this week came in the form of painting some signs for a ward member, which was really fun and kinda therapudic, when the fumes didn't give me a headache :)

What do you do when someone really needs the gospel but even talking to them tears their family apart because their husband is anti? Man!! It sucks!! We probably just have to leave it alone for now, though :(
So Thursday our companionship went up in a mushroom cloud--with lightning--and we haven't communicated since. It's been the longest four days of my life. The Lord cancelled pretty much all our appointments, which I was glad for, because I don't even want to go out and try to preach the gospel when I can't do it with the spirit. "Preach my gospel by the spirit", right? Maybe that's bad of me, but it's true.
So the missionary work has halted to a complete stop. For now. I will be very surprised if we're still together at this time next week. I'm surprised she made it this far. It's pride that's driving her, she told me as much before all this happened, which is a really bad drive...I don't even know what to think. Maybe I'll just refrain from trying to figure it out, but I'm an analyzer! I can't help myself!!
The Lord answers prayers! Even the kind we didn't think we were praying...so after things blew up, I kinda stopped eating cause we hardly have any food in our house and my comp bought most of it anyway and I didn't want to make her madder. So for like three days, we hardly ate anything. And I was thinking about it, and remembering the many times in the past in my mission when we were almost out of food and out of money to buy more and, every time, someone gave us a ton of leftovers or something and we were provided for. It's a little thing, but I saw that it had become a pattern. So I just thought, "I know that before this gets too bad, you can do that again, if you will." It was a super passing thought, but I was confident in it. I'd seen it a dozen times. I went back to studying.
The next day, several members loaded us up with enough food to literally last us several months. We gave a lot of it away cause it'll go bad before we can eat it. I was kinda astounded. But I know that the Lord loves me very much and He is watching over me :) And that is true even when it doesn't have to do with food :)

Sister Neal
PS if you ever have like 10 hours to study a day like I've got, read the Bible Dictionary. It's sweet. So much information!!

1/27/14: Looking Forward

TRANSFERS!
This may mean nothing to all of you, but it means a ton to me!!
SO MUCH CRAZINESS. Two more zones just split, and all the changes are blowing my mind. Both my  trainees are now STLs :) They're putting sisters in Sheboygan, Oak Creek, and Gresham. Weird!!! Expected oak creek, but not the others...
All of life is just fun as a missionary.
We had interviews with President this week, which was fun because it meant lots of district time. Our district meeting was SUPER good. Our district leader is awesome. Man, interviews must be stressful...
We met the other half of Sister Reigle, and he is so cool! He should get baptized. He's totally open. We have high hopes for him :)
Plus we had a lesson with a new investigator named Jennifer, and she has some good potential. Not a ton, but the interest is there, and she's sincere. That's what counts!
We met three more LA sisters and set up return appointments with them. There's one that I think might actually start coming to church again. Soon.
Louise. I don't even know what to think about her. She has potential, but there's a complicated side of things...I don't know. Meh.
Like previously mentioned, transfers are on Wednesday. It doesn't feel like it cause I just barely got here, but it is. And it just makes me really excited for the future. I feel kinda detached from the rest of the mission here in Janesville...I don't know why. But I do :/
I really need to be a better missionary. It's really hard to balance between yourself, your area, and your companion, particularly when at least one of those is a delicate situation. Anyone have any good solutions for doing the missionary work you want to do when other factors fight it? I hate just waiting for the time when I can do things fearlessly the way I think will be effective...I feel like I've done that most of my mission anyway. Lots of complicated feelings :/
We met this awesome family referred to us by a missionary in Colorado who used to live here. The family are his best friends--he emails them still and everything. We are really excited to teach them, but they just left on a week-long vacation. Why does that always happen?

Quentin got the priesthood! Rock on!! I am there in spirit :):)
Anyhow, this week is going to be intense. We have lots of appointments every day and lots of referrals to contact while we're at it. We are learning the art of member-oriented missionary work :) So far, so good.
Sister Neal

1/20/14: Week of Things :)

This was the Week of Things because we had all kinds of random stuff going on.
We started on p-day by celebrating Elder Norton's b-day. We decorated the halls of their apartment complex then spent all day making an ice cream cake then ate it over bowling at some really sketchy bowling alley. Ron the bartender is a sucker for sister missionaries though and we got to bowl for free :) For the record, I only got second to last! :P
Then on Tuesday we had zone training, which was lots of fun. Our ZL elder kanahele is awesome. then we had the best Cafe Rio dinner at bishops house, then we met up with our STLs and went on an exchange.

I got to go with Sister Milligan!!! Reunited once more :D
We had a blast in Kenosha. We totally sanitized this sweet lady's house, answered some temple questions for their investigator Melissa, and generally had a good time. I loved spending a day with this girl again. I totally admire her, and I'm so proud of all she has done :) And it was a tender mercy to me to see how much she looks up to me as well--I worried about how competent of a trainer I was back then. It was an awesome day.
Our elders. Are awesome. We just have to help them believe it.
Sister Boggus and Sister Peterson picked up the flu on their exchange. It was a rough day Thursday, but we got to see lots of people when Sister Boggus wasn't napping.
Friday was just plain hilarious. We talked a lot and Sister Boggus slept all day when we got home from seeing Bro Foster. Bro Foster is a psycho-therapist President wanted us to go see, even before I got to Janesville. It was super funny because he was trying to help fix our companionship issues, which turned out to be really difficult because we...don't...have any. Seriously. He reminds me of Mr. Schugk from Snow College, who was one of my awesome Criminal Justice teachers, who had a degree in behavioral science. Hmm...
It did help to at least get us communicating a little more, just cause we aren't really that chatty of people. It was cool to hear about Sister Boggus's life. She's an amazing girl :)
I watched all the D&C videos while she slept. They are awesome. I need more of this stuff...
We met Crystal, a referral, who is totally awesome. And some other really nice LAs. And we made homemade chicken noddle soup, which was delicious.
The Andrus family fed us the best missionary meal I've ever had <3 It was super basic, but soo good! I love mashed potatoes and gravy wayy too much. And all the other stuff :)
Sister Boggus is still pretty sick. It's not cool. Poor girl :( Still taking things slow. But having a good time, and managing to learn a ton in the process!
I love learning :)
Sister Neal

1/13/14: Missionary Work and Rummikub

I don't know if it's legal, but we played rummikub last night. Never done that on my mission before. But lots of missionary apartments have games, so I guess it's an okay p-day thing? Yesterday wasn't p-day, but the situation warranted treating it like one. Sometimes you just gotta take some time for you. Especially when your companion needs it.
K, so since last week I have been meeting all the people that Sister Ipson and Sister Boggus have been teaching. It's been a lot of fun, they are all great. They are all less-active too. There is a ton of less-active work here to do. I learned how to knit, and more of how to crochet. It's intense how much you can do with this stuff. We also read out of the BoM with a ton of people. I love reading the BoM with people. Nothing better.
We are teaching a FAMILY. They are really cool. There are four kids and the parents are married and together. Don't see that much these days. They have been super great and I think they really have a lot of potential. There's gonna be some stuff to work through, but the thing about that is that since this gospel is true, if they are really searching, everything will work out as it should :) That's a great comfort to me.
We have been taking it slow the latter part of the week because Sister Boggus has had a LOT of trials coming at her from back home. It's been rough. So we've been talking things out and making meals together and playing rummikub and watching church movies while we knit. Just like old ladies, yup :) I've learned a lot lately about the importance of giving trials time instead of just ignoring them and pressing forward. I have decided that it's best to take them head on, accept them, move past them, and then you can get back to work. So that's what we've been doing.
Pray for us.
Sister Neal

1/7/14: Welcome to Janesville!

So many many many thoughts have run through my mind and I have so many stories from this week but most of it I shouldn't even talk about--so I won't--so just know this week has been epic :)
Last monday we ate lunch with a semi-recent convert, Maggie, and her bf since they're leaving town for a whole and we don't know when they'll be back, but we love them lots :)
I also made a fantastic job of tripping (no ice involved) and destroyed my knees. Our neighbor only had rubbing alcohol.
WHO BUYS RUBBING ALCOHOL WHEN YOU CAN BUY HYDROGEN PEROXIDE????? fools. That stuff hurts.
You know President gets told all about how you and your companion always beg your way out of doing role-plays every ZTM because whenever a meeting with him comes around, he asks you to do it out of everyone. Cause you can't say 'no' to the President. We spent half the week working on a training for MLC cause Sister Newton likes to have these things perfect cause they're nerve-racking. I don't blame her. Particularly when it's in front of all of the mission bigwigs.
Charity: my new years resolution. I am determined to figure out the secret to this Christlike attribute. Although, when looking out on the opportunities I have had on my mission, it becomes clear that someone thinks I have a lot of charity. I can tell something has changed to everyone else, even though I can't tell what. Personally I don't feel like I've grown into it that much. I'm working on it anyway.
There comes a time when all reactivated/baptized people must take their journey away from the missionaries. Although that time is sad because we don't get to see each other as much, it's great because we know we don't have to fear for them. They aren't leaning on us anymore and they're just as strong by themselves. This is happening with Angie and Quentin, among others. It makes me happy :)
Some members are just much too loving :) I am grateful for them.
Setting new mission goals was awesome at MLC. As mentioned previously, we hit our mission goal for baptisms exactly this year. It was 300. We've never gotten close before. We had a solid 299 baptisms planned, but everyone prayed for just one more, and some kid literally traveled here from Ohio--where he met the missionaries, took the discussions, and was interviewed for baptism--and got baptized in his proper ward in Neenah, then went back off to school in Ohio. That's what the Lord does for inspired goal-setting :)

We set 400 for this year as the goal!!
Why?
Cause we're crazy, and we believe in miracles :)
Our training went really well. At least, President was smiling at me from ear to ear the whole time. Although, looking at it with the hindsight I have just being ET'ed, I realize something a lot more than just this training is really good was going through his mind. Possibly. Long story.
We had an exchange and I went to Shawano. I like Shawano :) Sister Kern and I had a really good time there, visiting lots of people. I loved seeing how it's blooming. The past three transfers since the sisters got there it was absolutely dead. Things are finally happening!!!
It was really cold. We tracted for like an hour. It was funner than I thought it would be :)
Here's the play-by-play for Saturday:
We had breakfast to end our exchange at about 9:00. We went straight from the exchange point to helping a potential investigator move which we did from about 10:30 to 1:00. She hadn't packed at all. We bought the whole group Hardee's (which is the east-of-the-Mississippi version of Carl's Junior, just a name-change) for lunch, and had barely started eating when the phone rang cause President was calling. We took it outside. He told us that I was being emergency transferred to Janesville with Sister Boggus, and that Sister Ipson was coming to Green Bay. He told us a lot of other things too. We went back inside at the end of the phone call and my appetite was gone, which surprised me quite a bit. Besides that, the other elders that were helping us help Sandy move were teaching the crowd of movers the Restoration, and it was going really well. Geez. We jumped right in. It was AWESOME. Besides the mind-still-a-million-miles-away part.

Then we had to leave to have an appointment with Gabriella. We did all of the necessary stuff from about 2:00 to 5:00 but neither of our minds were there. We were stuck thinking about what was coming next. I was totally calm; as soon as President told me, I felt that it was right. It is still mind-boggling though.
We had investigator volleyball, which was where the elders found out about the ET. They made that just plain awkward.
I packed a lot between then and Monday and we told all our favorite people the sad news. We ate at the Mills--first time!--and at the Vanderheydens. Love them all soo much. We were busy from the moment we got the phone call until we went to bed Sunday night.
That was probably a really good thing because Monday morning whatever peace I had had before was totally gone. Completely. I felt sick; that horrible kind of sick when your about to perform a solo or something. not cool. We went to the ice skating rink I never got to go to before, and some other fun places Monday morning before we had to leave at 10:30 to get to Milwaukee at 1:00.
The car ride calmed me a lot. We mostly listened to music, and talked when we needed to. Sister Newton and I have a very good relationship:) We feel like sisters.
We got to the mission office and President Cutler interviewed us. I so wish I could go into more detail. He gave me a blessing:) Sister Ipson and Sister Boggus arrived a little later and Sister Ipson hula-hooped for us:):) We had homemade Cafe Rio for lunch with Sister Cutler. Then we swapped all our luggage and headed off to our areas.
Did I mention that the high Monday was -10 but with windchill it stayed at a pretty constant -45 all day. Schools were closed. Honestly, you can hardly tell the different between zero and negative anything--the only way you really know it's that cold is because although they don't initially feel that different, the frostbite hits your face in like two minutes. Skip the cold and go straight to pain. It's not very nice.
Sister Boggus and I had awesome conversation on the ride home and a wonderful dinner at the Tuckers. I think I love Janesville already. It pretty much feels like Green Bay. I unpacked and we just talked a ton. I wish I could properly explain all the things going through my mind and heart all that night. Too many things. It was a really good night.
We could use your prayers though :)
Sister Neal

12/30/13: Christmas and 2014 :)

Hola mi familia!! And everyone else :)
Our week started with a blessing of comfort [for my companion], which is always a nice addition to any week because of the awesome spirit it brings :)
For district meeting on Christmas eve this week we did a white elephant gift exchange. The gifts were hilarious, including a date night set (completely with fine china and candles), a pineapple and fuzzy socks (I got that one!), a strange woodcarving of an animal of some sort, and a large Walmart print of Sister Newton's face with accompanying 'Pagan' t-shirt (long story, hilarious and stupid all at the same time) and a Justin Bieber poster. It was fantastic. We've been blackmailing and generally making the elders lives miserable to find out who has Sister Newton's face up on their wall now. They totally stole the picture when she won it!
Wilmotts: one of my favorite families ever. We spent Christmas eve at their house, and it was just awesome. I LOVE them!!

Christmas we spent with the Vanderheyden's between skyping home, preparing dinner, eating dinner, and sharing a message. It took like our whole day. It was a pretty good Christmas :)
Then on the 26th it was back to work! We did service at Habitat, and visited some potentials (our teaching pool is struggling). I love Sister Dresang dearly. She has really got to get baptized. And we are looking at some more hopefuls!
We went on our first exchange of the transfer on Friday--it felt like it had been FOREVER--and that was a lot of fun. Angie is still on fire--she's never going inactive again--we got to see Jill for a moment, talk to Tina, see the Ehnerds, and eat with the Vance's. Then we poured over the BoM study-help book Angie let us borrow, it's totally awesome!!!
We went to a baptism on Saturday and received the confirmation text a few hours later--WE GOT EXACTLY OUR MISSION GOAL FOR BAPTISMS IN 2013!!!!!! Exactly. I'm sure I'll find out soon who the miracle one was because it was looking like we were gonna be one short of our goal. I can't wait to see what we do for the new year :) *love going to MLC*
We also walked like 4 miles to our dinner appointment because it was 40 degrees outside so we may well have been in summer. It was really nice to go walking :)
Today it's been in the way-negatives. SUPER cold. I'll never complain about 40 degrees again--cause that was really nice!! You know you shouldn't be outside when you're coughing like crazy just because the air is too cold for your lungs. Geez.
Yesterday we met a semi-new family in the ward for realz--the Johnsons, and we super-love them! Plus we finally planned for a training coming up that was really stressing us out, plus Bro Wilmott and us taught Quentin all about the priesthood and callings and stuff and hopefully he gets it soon!!! I'm so excited for him--I just love these moments!!!
So yeah. Life is grand :) Just loving serving the Lord! It never stops being worth it <3

 Sister Neal

12.23.13: Quentin Got BAPTIZED!!!!

This was the best week ever because Quentin got baptized. And he's so ridiculously solid that I have no reason to fear for him ever :) He's absolutely amazing. He has so much support and love and beyond that he just understands that it's not even about that, although of course that helps. He knows this is really about Truth.
Tender beyond tender beyond tender mercies :)
The mission split a zone, which was pretty exciting. The work is moving forward!!! Even though it means there's gonna be way too many people in Leadership now. I like small groups :/
I love when you and your companion are on the same wavelength and we can hardly prepare for a lesson, but go in with a direction and the Spirit and that's all we need, because we both know how to work as part of a companionship and we both know how to follow the Spirit. It's really awesome. I can always rely on Sister Newton :)
Chad is awesome because even though he can't be baptized for a while he still wants to learn and is slowing becoming more converted. People are great. Sometimes.
Then there's those people that never should have gotten baptized. And that's really irritating. Don't baptize people who aren't ready, people! It's like twice as hard to help them later. Found out one of the girls we've been working with got baptized less than a month after the missionaries met her--then went pretty much inactive. She got activated a few months ago (after about a year) and this month the exactly same thing happened where she just didn't want to see us or talk to us anymore and is basically inactive again. Bleh. She doesn't have any understanding of the commitment that church is/should be. Missionaries should NOT be bestie's with their investigators until the gospel connection has been established. We want lasting, converted peeps!
There was winter storm Alice or something this week? Anyway, we got lots of snow. Almost got stuck like 5 times (seriously) but never completely stuck. It was interesting when we going to visit a potential who is really good friends with a lot of the members, and got stuck in her driveway for like 5 minutes right as Bro Vanderheyden drove up to clear it. He got to watch us struggle, lol :P Later, Quentin got to watch our poor 2-wheel drive struggle up a hill while he was behind us on the way to institute. Haha.
We threw together a musical number Friday night for Quentin's baptism on Saturday. And it was SUPER AWESOME. Emily and Sister Newton sing like angels :) The spirit was really strong. We also had 8-year-old twins we'd been working with get baptized an hour earlier. They are so cute.
Because of the winter storm, we only had sacrament meeting. Which I don't get, because the weather wasn't even that bad, yet every other set of missionaries we've talked had church get cancelled completely. But we demanded it go on, because Quentin needed the Holy Ghost. And it was awesome when he got it :) Did I mention how awesome this kid is?
Sister Neal

12/16/13: GB for Another Round!!!!

Guess whose NOT getting transferred. Didn't see that one coming!!! But I'm PUMPED!!! There's so much going on here that I can't wait to be a part of!!! I love it! And Sister Newton is the best companion ever (no joke) so the fact that we get 3 transfers together makes me just as happy as a clam :)
But that also means I am an STL for another transfer which I so did not see happening! I was totally ready to stop planning exchanges, going to leadership, buying food, giving trainings. Now it is weird cause we're sitting here and I'm realizing all the things that I have to do one more time and woah there's a lot!!! *body not falling apart or anything*
But I get to see Quentin get baptized, which is like the greatest tender mercy of all time :):)
This week was also ZTM week, which is the most draining week of a transfer for us and the GB zone leaders. Because the zone is so big, we do 2 ZTMs instead of the 1 everyone else does. It also means getting up at 4AM. Which just makes us zombies for the rest of the week.

But we survived it and it was fun!! I wish we could have done everything that was done in Leadership as awesomely as Bro Glazier and Bro Mills did, but we just aren't that talented :( I hope the missionaries got something out of it though :)
We had two days this week while our car was in the shop so we didn't have one, but I was only around for one because the other I was on an exchange :) But I realized that not having a car isn't as bad (right now) as I made out my memories in West Allis to be. It was actually kinda refreshing :)
There are some sweetly decorated houses here in GB for Christmas. SO COOL!!!
We saw some incredible miracles on the exchange. And met some really nice people :) I love nice people!!! It's also comforting to know that the gospel is true, because when we share it if the person we are talking to is honestly listening, I don't have to worry about making things up to make it seem true or worth it or grand! Because it already is all by itself!!!! Best job ever:):)
Bluemoon ice cream. Its a big deal in Wisconsin. I think it's weird. tastes super funky.
DANNY, ROCK EUROPE OKAY???? Inspiration is a pretty amazing thing as a missionary :) This definitely feels right to us. You are gonna love it. No marrying Paris boys while I'm still on my mission though.
We're going to have to start doing some finding again now that our most awesome investigator is getting baptized!! But Kim still has a lot of potential. We found out that Chad is on parole until 2017. I almost started crying when they told me. But we're gonna make him so solid in this church before he ever gets baptized anyway!!! Cause he's ready to change his life:)
Wish us luck in finding new people to teach! We have a pretty good potential pool, but it still takes a lot of the spirit to do it right. Keep us in your prayers :)
Love you all! Tyson--chill! :P
Sister Neal

12/9/13: Week of Stuff

I don't know what happened but our numbers this week were probably the lowest I've had in my whole mission. Not that numbers mean that much :)

We had a lot of service opportunities. We went to the National Railroad Museum several times to help out with the Christmas special. It was sold out back in like June because it's that awesome. The Polar Express!!! It's sooo much fun. So we did that a few times this week, and we talked to Carla, who is about to start meeting with the Spanish missionaries, and apparently Keri wants to start meeting with us. She is in charge of volunteers there. Like half the ward volunteers there, and like 4 sets of missionaries, so it was kinda hard for them to not ask questions :)
WE HEARD FROM RICHARD!!! He's the most golden investigator ever that I used to teach like three months ago but then he disappeared. We texted him--mostly for kicks--and he responded!! Yup...he's in jail. Until July. But whatevs. He's totally getting baptized when he gets out. He's awesome.
I went to Wausau on exchanges and had dinner at some Hmong peoples house. It was DELICIOUS. So much cilantro. In everything. In the rice. and the beef. and the spices. It was awesome :) Pretty spicy though, but I don't mind spicy :)
Plus we taught Jimmy on the exchange, who's just a crack-up. He needs some missionaries who will be able to joke and tease with him but also be super blunt and have high expectations. He's just a little crazy. But he already thinks he's Mormon, so that's a good start...? He just has to start keeping the commandments and stuff, no biggie...
Angie bought these awesome BoM study-help books by David Ridges or something, they are SO COOL. They were also like eighty bucks, but man! I want them. She's just doing so incredibly awesome. Who would've thought? Love her.
Mission Leadership Council was on Friday, it was a serious tender mercy that I got to go to one more before i leave leadership :):) I might have gotten food poisoning and was throwing up the whole time, but it was so much spiritual awesomeness ANYWAY!!! We had the director of training at the Provo MTC, and also the director of all international MTCs there and they did some awesome awesome roleplays and taught some awesome awesome stuff and it was just the best meeting ever :)

Plus, we are SOOOOO close to reaching our goal for baptisms this year!!! I will be so bummed if we don't reach it. We need like 8 baptisms a week for these last three weeks which is seriously stretching it, but possible. I've never seen something so close. I'm super nervous we won't make it, but I know we can!!! Quentin will add to that :) BBAAAHHHH
We survived teaching Chad the WoW and chastity. He likes coffee and lives with a girl that he doesn't really like at all, so they're just little problems that can be resolved. But hopefully they happen so he can be baptized on his date. He's a great guy but it's really hard to read him! He seems just happy with everything we have to share, but I don't know sometimes!! Following the Spirit I guess :)
In Gospel Principles I learned all kinds of new stuff I hadn't heard before about the Millenium. What? Seriously. How did I not know all this stuff?
1st Presidency Christmas Devotional=super cool! and some girl from the Neenah singles ward seems to be interested in Quentin... :D haha. singles activities=power! If only we had a singles ward here. I love Elder Ballard. Sister Wixom was awesome too.
How's everyone doing? Haley, especially?? Sending some letters out today :)

Love,
Sister Neal

12/2/13: Thanksgiving Week :)

Hey all! Hope you had a delicious Thanksgiving! We certainly did! And I didn't even stuff myself, or eat dessert, which makes me quite proud :) Although I wish I had some leftovers...
We ate at the Wilmotts, with the English Elders, the Hmong Elders, and Quentin, and one other lady from the ward. We played Cranium. The food was amazing :) Christmas lights are up! I LOVE them! People go so all out for the holidays here! It's awesome :)
Monday Sister Newton and I bought some Packers shirts at the thrift store. It was about time :)
Wednesday we had an exchange, and it went really well and we think both the girls learned a lot--just hoping they apply it! We talked a LOT about it afterwards. It's kinda fun to analyze people :) Plus on the exchange we got to contact a bunch of people we really needed to! But also we taught Quentin tithing and ever since things have been...weird. Tithing might be his holdup. His life also just is horrible right now.
So is Kim's. :'(

Thursday was weekly planning and Thanksgiving. Not much else. It was an awesome day, though :) We made some fun demos for whatever we could come up with since we figured no one outside really wanted to talk to us. Plus, everyone loves visuals!
Friday we played vball--for the first time, Quentin didn't come :( He hadn't talked to us all day, which is really weird for him.
Saturday we did SERVICE. At the Railroad museum!!!! They are now doing the Polar Express and it was AWESOME! I really wish I remember that movie. It was SO fun. And we didn't even get to go on the train. Just the pre-show stuff was awesome. no wonder it was sold out in like June. We're totally doing it again next week :) Plus Sister Dresang was there (not a member, but will be someday), Bro Grant was dancing in his conductor uniform, a girl named Garla has a Mormon sister, some guy named Chris had met with the Elders before and loved it. It's just Potential central. We'll take pictures this next time :)
Sunday Quentin came to church, but he was super reserved and seemed kinda really bitter about something. We were fasting for him. Seems like a lot of it is mostly not church related--just a really bad week. But he doesn't talk to much about it, so it's hard to tell!! Poor kid :(
Kim's like downright depressed right now. I don't know how to fix depression, geez! And Chad didn't come to church, but I'm sure he has a good excuse. He's pretty good about things like that. We met Priscilla and Michelle on the exchange and they said they were coming to church, but they were in the hospital for something...great. Satan works in too many ridiculous ways.
I was feeling sick Sunday night and we almost didn't go out because we didn't have any appointments but I remembered a lady in our ward saying how on her mission her and her companion would get sick every time they stepped outside, and that was how Stan prevented them from working, so I decided that we should go out anyway and try to contact some people, and it was hugely successful! Almost everyone was home! And it was amazing. Still felt sick through it all, but I'm so glad we did it :)
Besides, it involved CAROLING! We sang our Ward Mission Leader and his wife our rendition of "Jingle Bells" while we delivered them chocolate because Sister Newton's mom sent wayyy too much of it. It was hilarious :):)

A bunch of other stuff happened too, but I can't remember because I didn't bring my planner. You know. Short-term memory loss over here. But it was a good week! A lot of personal preparation because I know changes are coming, and not gonna lie I'm just a bit nervous for them 8/ These last few transfers have just been so wonderful...I'm nervous about going back to not-extremely-blessed areas and companions and investigators. I know we'll be blessed, but I have a feeling it's gonna be hard.
As President Cutler told us: "If you get transferred [someplace horrible], then you can rejoice, as did Job of old, that you get to suffer." Whooo!

Sister Neal

11/25/13: #Missionlife

We met Terry, who has come to the church for some financial aid. She's very nice, more legit than I thought. But we're still not sure if we'll be able to do much for her. It's so sad to see people in such hard places :(
 
We found out that Gabriela has a lot more issues with the church than we thought. Just because most other Christian churches share a view that is different than our view, doesn't mean theirs is correct...hmm, how to get this across...but they're gonna be out of town pretty much until I get transferred, so that might be the next missionary's job.
 
We had a miracle exchange this week! I don't think I could have pulled that baptismal date out on Quentin without Sister Ruiz's help. It's great to have new people around to ask the basic questions :) So QUENTIN ACCEPTED A DATE!!!!!!!!! Finally, haha :)
 
This is what Quentin's life is like:
"Sorry Quentin, we cancelled vball for tonight because the Spanish branch is playing bball. But you can crash it if you want."
"I would totally crash that...but the Spanish elders already invited me."
"...of course they did."
then
us: "Hey Quentin, want to come with us to Thanksgiving dinner at the Wilmotts? You don't know them, but they're super cool."
"My family isn't doing anything. Sure."
Hmong elders: "Guess what sisters? We just invited Quentin to thanksgiving dinner at the Wilmotts!"
"We...totally already did that."
"Oh, well, we invited him to church, too!"
"We did that too."
"And the devotional next week?"
"Yeah."
"Oh...well we did too."
-stop trying to steal my golden investigator-
then
"Hey Quentin, we haven't seen you in like two WHOLE days. Feels like forever. What have you been up to?"
"Well yesterday I went with the Hmong elders to dinner at some Hmong persons house because they needed a guy there, then we watched the Restoration. I really liked that. Then earlier today the Spanish elders and the Hmong elders and the English elders and I went out to lunch together because they wanted to thank me for giving them rides to vball, bball, church, appointments, and everything else in the past five weeks."
"Oh. Cool."
This is called immersion. It works great.
 
Our investigator Kim is doing all kinds of missionary work for us. But seeing her do it so shamelessly has really inspired me! She just means it, and says it lovingly, and no one is ever offended :) Trust me, sharing the gospel is a LOT easier than we tend to think it is. If we love it, we tell others how awesome it is, like anything else we love. That easy :)
 
I met with one of my old investigators from Waunakee this week. He was in Green Bay for the week and wanted to meet! It was awesome! And Bro Grant was a huge help. Jim is struggling with the concept of rebaptism. He's been an Episcopalian preacher for like 35 years, he's written whole books on Acts, and other stuff, and...he believes Joseph Smith is a prophet, without a doubt. He shares the BoM with like everybody. But although he understands our stance on why he needs to get rebaptized, he doesn't accept it. He knows it makes sense, but he's holding back. He grew up believing you were only supposed to get baptized once--not to mention he's a preacher, so he baptizes people, but he didn't say that--and so he just doesn't know what to think. Anyone got some help for that?
 
It's been a week full of blessings for everyone around us. Fun times. Priesthood blessings work :)
 
Angie, a used-to-be-less-active-member, is on FIRE! She loves the gospel. And it's so incredible to see her seeking the opportunities to go to the temple, know the scriptures, and find answers. She's amazing.
 
We had four people at church Sunday: Kim and her daughter Madison, Chad, and Quentin. Kim loved it, her first time. Chad's first time was last week, which wasn't the best week to be at church, but this week was a million times better. Great stuff. Madison loved primary. It's a good time to be in GB:)
 
It was a good personal growth week too. I feel like I learned so much from everyone around me, especially my investigators. So many good people that teach me so much :) I'm gonna miss it here. A lot.
 
Sister Neal

11/18/13: [No Subject]

It's always a good time in Green Bay :)
First off: we had some fun with the mission president and all mentioned something about Luke 1:57 in our emails to him a few weeks ago as a way to let him and his wife know that their daughter Elizabeth is pregnant. This also happened in the Tokyo Japan mission because the mission president there is the other set of parents in the family.
So Elder Brooksby the Younger and I live in a REALLY small world! Crazy.
This week I bought some new skirts which always makes a week good because out in the mission field, we get really sick of our own clothes :)
We also survived a minor car crash. again. She was super nice and we might just end up teaching her :P
We recontacted our awesome investigator Kim who dropped off the face of the earth for a while. She is going through hard times :'( But fortunately she has the church to help her find happiness!!! We just have to convince her of that :)

We had to do the demonstrative roleplay at zone conference this week which was a major point of stress for both of us, but it went really well!!! Then I went on an exchange to Marquette Michigan and  there's snow on the ground there!!! NOOO!!!! Well, it was only a tiny tiny bit, but still.
We had a blast in Marquette. I got to hold a bearded dragon at a children's museum. partay :) we also had a lot of fun tracting and pretending like we knew what we were talking about at correlation since I just got there that day and the sister I was with was a new missionary of about a week. She's gonna be a great missionary :)
Then Sister Newton and I napped a lot over the next several days. Neeeddddd sleeeeeeppppppp
We accidentally took our 24-year-old investigators to a single adult fireside (not 'young') but it ended up being super spiritual and awesome!!! And we had three investigators at church which was great because it was the Primary Program. Sooooo cute :)
Funny stories: My companion reminds our ward mission leader of his wife's old college roommate Janae. He never told us that, but his wife told us that he says it all the time. So Sister Newton walked up to him (they're expecting their fifth child) and said "I was thinking...you should name your next child after me."
and he said, "Oh really?"
and she was like, "Yeah. You should name her Janae."
And he said, "Wait, your name is Janae??" and freaked out. It was super funny. Her name is not actually Janae :)
Our mission office also gave us all CD copies of a talk called "The missionary next door" by Diana Hasler Hoelscher. It's SUPER good, and super funny :) All families need to listen to it. Seriously. Her dad is in our mission presidency, so I kinda can't wait to meet him :)
She is talking about a guy her sister met at a dance that is actually a hard-core partier and telling her parents about how she's sorry she let it go on and says "Look, I know we've brought some really, really wicked people into this church[uh...?], but this guy, this guy is like nothing you've ever seen!"
Her parents say "Now Diana, he is a child of God and the church is for everyone [blah blah blah]"
She says "You need to listen to me!! Your child's gonna be a teenage statistic!"
And so on. By the way, he got baptized and served a mission and got married in the temple :)
This is the good life. I think I've hit my stride as a missionary sometime in the past month. I finally feel like I know what I'm doing and how to be a successful missionary and everything. I'm just comfortable. It might also just be because I'm so comfortable in this area, though. We'll see what happens when I get transferred :P (No Christmas packages, except to the mission office. I'm gettin transferred on Dec18th! Pretty much guaranteed)
Love,
Sister Neal

11/11/13: X-fers and Baptism!

This week has been good. It was the first week we had to ourselves in our area in a while, which we hardly even knew what to do with! It was weird to think how everyone else was being transferred around we we just kept on doing our work.
We started the week by fixing our car. Yay for cleanliness and full tires! Later, we spent like half an hour getting a branch out from under our car. Big branch. Sister get pretty creative about these sorts of things :P
Apparently it's moving season. we also helped several of our la/rc/investigators move out and in. Moving is a LOT of work!!!
Quentin, our miracle boy, is rocking the world. We met with him on Wednesday--the first time in a while we were actually together for it. We normally teach him on exchanges because he's such a great investigator for the sisters to learn from :) Then Thursday we played volleyball with him, some elders, and some other investigators and recent converts. Friday he came to the BYU Football team devotional (they played UWM in Madison the next day), Saturday he came to the baptism, and Sunday he came to church. We basically see him everyday. And we feel like he's getting close to making some choices...meaning baptism. He feels the spirit a LOT and it's pushing him!
Correlation in our ward is just a little nuts. Meaning hilarious. I think our new missionary in the ward was a little weirded out. Welcome to GB2!! Where it's a party everyday. With baptisms. We hit the ward goal for convert baptisms during 2013 with ChyAnne!

The Plan of Salvation is a hard lesson to teach well. I don't know why. But when we taught it to Chad it went SO WELL. It was awesome. And he came to the baptism too :)
Bro. Vanderheyden talked at us some more over pizza. He's so funny. Funny, but genius. And he loves Quentin. And I'm pretty sure Quentin enjoys listening to him, so it all works out :)

Leadership council was...intense. That's all I've got. Intense.
Sister Newton and I are ALWAYS on the same brainwave. Like, always. We had the same impression about Chad's lesson, about Quentin's progression, same stress before the baptism, same feelings about leadership council, and when she said "We hit a branch with our...car" I thought she was about to say "We hit a branch with our tree" and it turned out she had been about to say that! And a million other things. It's kinda creepy. I feel like she must be able to read my mind, cause I feel like I'm reading hers...
No one is ever home when we have nothing else to do. Really? Geez. We're trying to be productive, here. Three of our most solid investigators have literally vanished (well, we're pretty sure one of them is in jail...) and it's kind of annoying! When we're not around, Satan is moving in!!! THIS MUST STOP.
Excited for zone conference this week. Except for the part where we've been asked to do the roleplay demo. Bleh.
Revelation for the week: ...I can't remember. It's in my study journal. But it was some cool stuff. Thank you football coach at BYU. I clearly need to read more Holland when I get home. But is Christ talking about other planets in 3 Ne 16:2 (I might be making up that reference...)? Cause...that seems like one of the most likely options. Also: chapter 21. Missionary work RULES. And I really need to start studying Isaiah when I get home...at least it's not Ezekiel. Phew!
Anyhow...missionary life is AWESOME!!
Sister Neal

11/4/13: XFERS and MIRACLES

Tony contacted us. Again. The man is crazy. But he wants to come to church! If he does, we'll teach him. But he keeps saying that, and he never comes. So...thinking no. What do you do with these people?
You know when people leave the church because a certain issue 'wasn't inspired enough' you've got someone with pride issues. I hate pride! BAH!
Our exchanges this week were fun. One was hard, but the other one was with a sister that got into the field like two weeks ago and we had a BLAST and saw MIRACLES everywhere we went! That's the glory of not knowing what you're doing, when you're both in an area you barely know with no one you know. You gotta follow the spirit :) We met Marlene, the sweetest lady ever who has had some hard times lately but is so prepared because of it :) We were also trying to pull transfer secrets out of the ZLs, but they weren't having it. Well, they told us some stuff, haha.
Me and Sista Newton are staying put! Which we were expecting and are very happy about :) But then we found out that the two sisters in our zone who are leaving are opening a new STL area together! Didn't see that coming. One of my old trainees is also becoming an STL. All this just makes me happy mostly because it means I get to see all of them at Leadership Council this weekend!!! I think I might cry when I get to see Sister Milligan again, it's been so long! <3
We taught Gabriela this week. She's so great. She had the missionary discussions a million times in Utah and when we first started talking she was totally closed off to baptism. But we just talked to her about her family and her dreams and stuff for about an hour and by the end of it she was asking about what she has to do to get baptized and said "I always knew I would get baptized someday. I just wasn't ready yet." The timing is NOW!! Sweet :)
Other crazy weird stuff happened at transfers. Plus we hear we might be changing some mission/zone/stake boundaries to fix some of the issues we're having with those...that would be cool :)
Uh...I hit my nine month mark in two days???? Half way? WHAT???
We had epic church on Sunday and taught one of our investigators and them spent like three hours doing service for a family in the ward that just moved. Love them :)
The baptism planned for last week didn't happen, but it's DEFINITELY happening this week. I'll send a pic when it happens :)
We just have the most blessed area ever <3 I love it here soooo much!! And I can't wait to see what's happening next :) life is just so crazy as a missionary! I LOVE IT!
Love you guys too :) YOLO
Sister Neal

10/28/13: I Love GB2!!

This was like the longest week on my mission, but it still passed super fast. It felt long because technically it's the 6th week of the transfer and normally we would be transferring, but instead it's next week. We also didn't even find out who is coming into the mission until today, and the waiting to know everything has just been killing me!! We also only had one exchange.
The sisters coming out has slowed down a lot :(
If I had been transferred out after my first transfer here I would have been perfectly content. I liked the area, and there were certain people I would have missed, but I would have been happy to see someplace else.
And that's how most of this transfer has been too! But just this week with everything that has been happening I've realized that I don't want to leave!!! We have SO much going on in this area, it's insane. We determined that we don't do enough finding--but we NEVER do finding here, because we have so much to do! It's great, but we decided we would do more finding anyway. Then we went to church and met Gabriella, who isn't a member, who was like "I know I'll be a member someday. I've just kind of procrastinated it. But I want to be."
Apparently the Lord just really doesn't want us doing finding here. THINGS LIKE THAT JUST KEEP HAPPENING TO US. We feel like we aren't even trying! And now we have so much potential and so many baptisms coming up, I just don't even know what I would do if I left. I really do love all of our amazing people here. They are incredible :)
ChyAnne is getting baptized this week. Then Mia and Nick should be getting baptized on the 16th. Kim, Madison, and Chad are on the 30th. Then we have Quentin and Tina (and Fuchi) who all need to get baptized. And we have some awesome potentials like Gabriella and Sister Dresang that we haven't even started working with yet. I just don't even know why we are so blessed.
That pretty much covers our whole week. Meeting with awesome investigators and awesome less actives and playing volleyball. Always volleyball. So much volleyball.
Then yesterday we ate dinner with an active family and the husband--who just thinks way more than any human being should possibly think--dived into a discussion on faith and power, which developed into thoughts and feelings, which developed right on into priesthood and then godhood and then who knows what. All based on physical health. The man is crazy. But totally awesome. It was actually kinda cool because all the conclusions he had come to were all the same conclusions I have come to, just with way more evidence and way better eloquence, haha :)
Lesson of the day: learn all you can. think critically. search out answers. we hardly even comprehend all that we could have and do if we tried. there is SO much out there to learn :)
Sister Neal

10/21/13: Busiest Week of my LIFE!

Normally when we have something crazy go on and we're super busy and not sleeping, we take an appropriate amount of time to nap and rejuvenate afterwards. This week we didn't even have time for that!
Monday I bought new shoes! YEAH! Even though I'm probably not going to wear them much in the winter...sidenote: Wisconsin does NOT have good malls...
Tuesday we had Zone Training, and Sister Newton and I presented a training that went really well, I think. Then we helped Nacho start her mission papers and ate dinner with our favorite ward-missionary-thats-not-actually-a-ward-missionary, Jenni. And our actual-ward-missionary Maggie. They are the best people on this earth :) Even if Jenni's voting for Wisconsin in the Wisconsin-BYU game...student section. understandable.
We tried and failed at going to bed early Tuesday night because Wednesday was 4AM day. We drove to Marinette by 6AM, then slept on the two hour van drive to Marquette. Then gave out Zone Training again, and repeated the process back home.

The mutual kids fed all the missionaries dinner, which was pretty fun, and Sister Ross solved all our problems. I'm going to her whenever I need something done in this ward now :) Yay for getting a million people patriarchal blessing recommends and temple recommends!! (Then bishop talked about it in his talk on Sunday, cause so many people were asking for them, lol)
Thursday we had an exchange with Sturgeon Bay. I am grateful we follow the spirit even though I really wanted to go see Sturg in the fall because Sister Jardine and I had a great day in GB :) Quentin and James are rocking!!
Friday we had...another exchange! Haha. Sister Bennett and I helped Nacho some more with preparing for her mission and taught like 4 lessons to kids under 10. We teach a lot of kids...
Then Saturday was just plain packed! We taught cute Tina, met Kim and Madison--SOLID referrals :)--volunteered at the National Railroad Museum (and rode on the train, of course) helped out at the ward trunk-or-treat, and played volleyball with several nonmembers and a bunch of the youth. I have never laughed so hard at a game of volleyball in my LIFE. SOOOO FUNNNNNYYYYYY it was AWESOME
We did weekly planning on Sunday.
Have I ever mentioned that it's a small world? Well it is because Sister Newton is ex-bishop Newton's NIECE. Bam. That's my comp :)
So transfers are in two weeks and there's a relatively small chance that I'll get transferred but it's possible which is driving me crazy. But I'll let you know what's going on :) I really want to stay, but at the same time it would be fun to go somewhere new :)
Love you guys! Write me :) and my companion. We're suffering from lack of letters, lol. Remember to keep being missionaries :D
Sister Neal

10/14/13: When did Weeks Turn into Hours? Sheesh!!

Seriously, reflecting on the past transfer I feel like weeks are just tiny little blips and not enough time to accomplish anything! Who needs weeks? Bleh.

We taught this lady named Shanell for the second time this week...it was really intense! She didn't believe any of it. Or anything from last time. She wasn't willing to say it wasn't true, but she didn't understand the importance of praying about it either. At all. Personally, prayer for answers is like a no-brainer...but not to some! We're still hopeful we'll be able to do something for her because she really is seeking for truth--she just doesn't have any idea how to recognize it. But we'll help her out :)

I spent all last week out of my area so I'm not totally sure what's new here, but this week it's Sister Newton who gets to spend all week away from the homeland...so I'll be catching up :)

We played volleyball again this week. I don't like sports much, but it was actually really really fun last thursday. I think because we all loved and trusted each other and  no one judges each other. Heaven's gonna be a nice place :) Quentin came and had a ball! He also came to district sports today...but suffice to say some elders are very immature and it wasn't nearly as fun :( 

A new family moved into the ward and they are great!! We ate dinner with them yesterday and had a fantastic time. Although I found out that the new Percy Jackson book came out last month and that's...yeah. Wishing I could read it. But then again, (as Sista Newton and I commonly say,) "Ain't nobody got time fah dat!"

ChyAnne, a nine year old we're teaching, is the daughter of a woman who has been going in and out of church for years and generally not been on great terms with the commandments. But she bore her testimony in sacrament meeting and was like "I've gone in and out a lot...but this time, I'm here to stay!!" It almost made me cry. 

Note to parents/leaders: Never get angry at a child for being honest with you about a mistake they've made. Who ever wants to be honest again when they get yelled at? Exactly...that's bad parenting, and it comes with leadership positions too. Just don't do it. People generally want to be better than they are. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Especially when they confess.

So funny story! The sisters we were on exchanges with this week walked off with out phone. They live almost two hours away. We figured it out after driving away for twenty minutes, then immediately pulled over and the manager at Walgreens (Walgreens is EVERYWHERE here) was super nice and let us use the office phone. I tried calling all my old areas hoping that they could get the sister's number or something so we could get in contact with them, but no one answered. What would you do at this point?

We did the obvious thing....we called OUR phone....they answered :) We felt kinda dumb. Lol.

So...five months and three weeks until general conference!!! Can't wait :D

People in Wisconsin go all OUT for holidays! But especially Halloween. The earliest decorations were out by the first of September. It's getting kinda crazy now! I just...do not like Halloween. Bring on the Christmas!!

Anyways...love you guys! How's the missionary work going on elsewhere?
Sister Neal

10/7/13: Week of Lots of Thoughts...

I'm constantly amazing by how many crazy people there are in the world...is this all that we're capable of these days?? It makes me so sad sometimes but also just frustrated that people can't be raised in better environments...thank you for the gospel of Jesus Christ!!!
At some point we'll get Nacho started on her mission papers. As soon as bishop reappears. I haven't seen him in at least three weeks...uh...?
KAITLYN WHERE ARE YOU GOING?????????????????? WISCONSIN, RIGHT???? :P
Exchanges are so much fun I love going out with all the sisters :) And we are able to focus on our area and get things done! I feel like life is so busy when me and sister Newton are together we don't even have time to take care of our area...bleh...but the goals are set. Hopefully we can see them through!
Uh...Quentin is our miracle boy. We met with him twice last week and one of them was just so he could ask us questions. The questions ended up being like, "How do YOU deal with trials?" and stuff that's totally not doctrinal but just gave us the chance to tell him all about the Christlike qualities this church allows us to develope...Love him :) Plus, he came to two sessions of general conference and he's playing volleyball with us this week, and meeting for another lesson! He's soooo solid. I love sincere people :)
Sometimes I feel like I need to be a superhero. There are like...literal lives at stake here! And sometimes it's really hard but I love that the Lord trusts me to do it...So I try my best and I'm so grateful the Lord gives me the words to speak and comforts me when I need it :)
We had interviews with President this week! I love being able to talk with him :)
We also had Leadership Council.. (no wonder we didn't get anything done this week...)...it was a blast! President chews out the ZLs so much, hardcore...but it helps us all to grow and work harder and be better and it all makes me so excited to share the joy of this work with the other missionaries! Let's light a fire under Wisconsin!
So how did everyone like General Conference?? It was AMAZING. I seriously didn't even get tired during a single one of the talks...I could do that all week! SOO good. Personally, I really loved Christoffersons and Hollands (I didn't expect to like either of them at the beginning, but I guess that's what makes these guys so amazing!) And also Eyring!! And whoever taught about being a good teacher. So much gold in all of them. Can I have the Ensign yet??
So. Busy. I feel like we're always running sometimes, and other times I feel like we could do so much more! I love Sister Newton--we understand each other perfectly and we teach together soo soo well :) Here we come, world! Bring it on!!!
I hope all of y'all are having a fantastic time too :) I am so grateful every day to be able to be a missionary :) It's slipping away fast! I'm trying to treasure every moment :) I'm not even halfway done and yet I feel like I'm going to run out of time any second! How does that work??
Sister Newton and I are pretty positive we'll both be here for at least one more transfer. Even though the transfer just started...I just like to plan ahead :) Then more exciting stuff will probably start happening! Haha. Love it.
Love you!!
Sister Neal

10/1/13: Busy, Busy Week!!

I believe in many different forms of missionary work. One of those includes writing letters to our sisters because everyone knows getting letters makes people happy :D Also: yay for an artsy companion!
MISSION TOUR. Was. Wednesday. SOOOO GOOD! I was kinda distracted the whole time (long story) but Elder Perkins was super awesome and he taught me a lot...I wish I brought my notes...
Most importantly: just keep doing everything you can!
We blasted through weekly planning this week because I am not sure why but we never have any time!!! And we needed some. So weekly planning takes the shaft.
We got a bunch of new investigators this week, so I'm really excited to see how it goes! Several of them are really solid! Quentin is the most sincere kid I've ever met. He's so ready for find truth in his life. Then Tina and Angelina who are the cutest 13-year-olds ever. Also the smartest. The Hmong elders are working on Tina's parents, so we get to work with her!
Anyone notice the common theme in the relief society broadcast? Hmm...I feel the world coming to an end...
LEFTOVERS. It really is a miracle when the church gives you all their delicious real-food leftovers the very day you actually kinda need them. We're not gonna starve!
We had a BAPTISM!!!!! Taylor, the 15 year old daughter of a returning-less-active was baptized. It really was a miracle because...not a lot of people believed it could ever happen. Most people actually believed it was totally hopeless. But she is the most solid convert EVER. Miracles. Do. Happen. And she's a strength to her whole family. Love her!!!
We've been running a few miles for exercise everday because Sister Newton's really into that kinda of stuff. It feels good!...most of the time :)
Hope you all are doing well! I'm writing some letters today :)
Sister Neal

9/30/13: Busy, Busy Week...

I believe in many different forms of missionary work. One of those includes writing letters to our sisters because everyone knows getting letters makes people happy :D Also: yay for an artsy companion!
MISSION TOUR. Was. Wednesday. SOOOO GOOD! I was kinda distracted the whole time (long story) but Elder Perkins was super awesome and he taught me a lot...I wish I brought my notes...
Most importantly: just keep doing everything you can!
We blasted through weekly planning this week because I am not sure why but we never have any time!!! And we needed some. So weekly planning takes the shaft.
We got a bunch of new investigators this week, so I'm really excited to see how it goes! Several of them are really solid! Quentin is the most sincere kid I've ever met. He's so ready for find truth in his life. Then Tina and Angelina who are the cutest 13-year-olds ever. Also the smartest. The Hmong elders are working on Tina's parents, so we get to work with her!
Anyone notice the common theme in the relief society broadcast? Hmm...I feel the world coming to an end...
LEFTOVERS. It really is a miracle when the church gives you all their delicious real-food leftovers the very day you actually kinda need them. We're not gonna starve!
We had a BAPTISM!!!!! Taylor, the 15 year old daughter of a returning-less-active was baptized. It really was a miracle because...not a lot of people believed it could ever happen. Most people actually believed it was totally hopeless. But she is the most solid convert EVER. Miracles. Do. Happen. And she's a strength to her whole family. Love her!!!
We've been running a few miles for exercise everday because Sister Newton's really into that kinda of stuff. It feels good!...most of the time :)
Hope you all are doing well! I'm writing some letters today :)
Sister Neal

9/23/13: Green Bay

Hey hey hey!!!
This week has been a lot of planning, so not a lot of exciting stories but there are some things:
1) Zumba is fun? Who woulda thought...
2) MIRACLES happen once in a while...when you believe :)
So this is the miracle: Sister Erickson was telling me about the things that she doesn't want me to forget, including people I haven't met that should be contacted. One of them was Tony, We call him Fratello (means brother in italian, which is his native language). I hadn't met him but then, like two days later, after two months of absolutely no contact, he called us and said he wanted to meet! So we met, and he said that he had read the whole book of mormon in italian, and for the first time ever accepted a baptismal date! We were like 'uh...what?' It was soo cool :)
Another: Quentin, who we met when we knocked on his door kinda accidentally, texted us and opened up about his desires to know more about God. It was really a miracle. He was so quiet and secretive at his door, but his desire is so sincere and I already love him! He grew up JW, but didn't agree with it. So excited to teach him!

Richard also accepted a baptismal date! Love him :)
Sister Newton is my new companion and she has been incredible. She's been out one transfer longer than me, and she really knows her stuff! Yup. She's been exactly what this area needs after Sister Erickson :)
Last transfer was rough around the edges. She's exactly what I needed too :)
Taylors baptism is on saturday! She's sooo ready, and her mom is too. I have loved seeing the change in their lives. She's going to be an incredible member <3
Soo much other stuff but it doesn't really sound that interesting over email so I'll hold off...but we have such incredible potential here! I love being a missionary :D

Sister Neal

9/16/13: TRANSFER MADNESS

So nothing that I didn't expect is happening with me this transfer, but I was looking at transfer board and it's going INSANE. Things that have never happened before are happening left and right. Most of the sisters in training have been swapped to new trainers, people are being put in areas they've already served in or with companions they've already served with...it's nuts. That just doesn't happen.
My MTC companion just became another one of the STLs! ROCK ON!!!
Sister Newton, who came out one transfer before me, is going to be my new companion here. I don't know her very well, but I've only heard the best of the best about her. I'm super excited :D
We had stake conference this week and the adult saturday session was super ominous...everything was about temples...I think they're implying something...
Pres. Culter came to the conference though and so it was nice to talk to him. I love him! He's so sweet and so smart :)
It should be noted that two people are not enough to cover to any degree all the people we had at stake conference. Robyn came to church for the first time since she moved here and she loved it! And NACHO is starting her MISSION PAPERS and life just can't even get any better than that. And Angie's making such amazing progress and the Wheelers stayed for the whole thing and Nancy came and Taylor's whole family came. Miracles :)
When bishop called Wednesday night to say "Sisters, Nacho has been a member of the church for a year and she is worthy to serve a mission" we both just started crying. She's incredible. We just baptized her two little sisters a few weeks ago and now we're going to start teaching her little sister's friend Sophia. This family is doing incredibly. It's so worth it to see their amazing progress in the gospel :)
two exchanges this week, both were great. I got to go to Wausau and their area is wayy different from what I expected Wausau to look like. So that was neat. We biked like 10 miles that day and just sayin', doing that to this poor girl when she's been in a car the past two transfers...painful.
Our other exchange I stayed in my area and we got a lot of stuff done that we needed to! It took a load off for this transfer. Sister Martin is great too :D
Check out the news. Apparently on Saturday Green Bay tried to make a world record of the most people doing zumba together. We almost went, but we were busy. It was on lambeau field. I wanna know how it turned out!
Stake conference was so awesome. The importance of our temples was a big focus, but they also talked a good deal about member missionary work and the book of mormon. And there was a Q&A. It was really neat :)

There was a packer game yesterday and we cracked our window and we kept hearing cheers outside and then today EVERYONE is wearing green and gold. So...we presume that they won :) Which is good, because when they don't win people stop believing in God around here. It's...crazy.
It's Sister Erickson's last three days in Wisconsin! I love her so much. She's an amazing missionary and she's going to be an amazing member back home. I am grateful for the transfer I've had with her. She really, really, really loves people. A lot. And she's shown me a lot about being a leader. I'm gonna miss her headed back to cedar city!
I'm really excited for this transfer. We have an amazing ward and amazing investigators and now I've got another great companion and great sisters and we're rockin the world :)
Can't wait!
Sister Neal